"now howie talks about football again , he brought up football before in the gym when janie was talking about big daddy"
In case it is not obvious to all, her bf plays for the NY Jets. I cannot tell from some of the posts if everyone has figured that out, but as James said to Howie, "You just gave it away". Training camp is starting right about now until mid-August, the season ends at the end of December and the playoffs go into January and Maui is the Pro Bowl in February. I looked at a NY Jets roster and no one jumps out at me as far as who "Big Daddy" might be.
Thanks to all for your tireless efforts keeping us informed of the in house going-ons! 
Oh good detective work breinejm
, she said hes 32 also ..maybe you can narrow it down?
Thanks for the info regarding his age of 32. That narrows it down a lot!
Ben Graham
http://www.nfl.com/players/playerpage/556555 turns 33 11/02/06. Punter from Australia 64 220 lb could be a Big Daddy, but as of 2 months ago he was married:
http://www.nflplayers.com/players/player.aspx?section=journal&id=36869Pete Kendall
http://www.nfl.com/players/playerpage/3769just turned 33 on July 9th. Definitely a BIG daddy at nearly 300 lb, but is married:
http://www.newyorkjets.com/team/roster/show/882Trey Teague
http://www.nfl.com/players/playerpage/12756is a 65 300 pound tackle who turns 33 in December and also appears to be married:
http://www.thejetsblog.com/blog/_archives/2006/3/31/1852314.htmlOf course the rosters may not be exact, but there are only 3 that are close to qualifying in terms of age and all appear to be married.
One of their running backs, Curtis Martin, turned 33 in May and appears to be single. I can also understand why he would want this to be quiet since he is well known in the league, but likes a low profile and I love Janie, but she is anything but a low profile!
If I had to guess based on this, it is Curtis Martin or one of the other guys is cheating on his wife! If they are dating it is likely he was 32 when they started and perhaps Janie has not yet added 1 to his age since his birthday.