I agree with you guys, I would relish my alone time, too!
I think the reason ehy Jeff and Jordan are so appealling to many viewers is because, (while they are attractive but neither is particularly bright). they both just seem like down to earth, decent, sane kids.
I hope some of the newbies start to give off that vibe...Adam, Keith, Lawon, Dom and Porshe are totally annoying to me.