I never said it was smart for Jen to grab the lit cig but its easy for all of us to sit back and say that. If I was in that situation your damn right I would've tried to grab it out of his hand, he had NO right to do what he did and it would've pissed me off.
I think Jen had enough of all the bashing and did something in the heat of the moment (destroying his cigs, the last time she did it when he took her clothes first he basically rolled them back up - hence why she used the bleach this time).
And then Alison said on that blog someone posted that it was not ok to do the cigarette thing because Dick knew who did it, but it was ok for Eric to put the mustard on the shirt because Jen didn't know who did it. So I guess if you do things in the BB behind peoples backs its ok
No wait, take that back. I think its WHO YOU ARE in the BB house.
I was also thinking about this, what if Dick say put the tea over Jamekas head. We all know how precious her hair is to her because of her really expensive extensions. Would BB have stepped in then because thats destoying.
No matter what, BB SHOULD have done something about a guy who walks around bragging about how many warnings he has gotten from the DR. So why isn't that in the rule book

If you get so many warnings your out of there.
And as far as beating the crap out of Dick, well I am a 5'3" girl and I would love to knock him out.
Wait till he finds out about the incest comments that precious Eric was making.