I know that a lot of people can't stand Dani because of the whining and Amber because of the crying, but emotions are heightened in the house. I mean I can't even stand Amber and her crying is over the top, but maybe the house is the reason for it, oh wait she cries when a pin drops so maybe this isn't true for her. But I am only a few years older than Dani and I definately have my moments when I whine and sulk, I think with being in the house it is exagerated because you are with the same people day after day and there really isn't any variation as to what is going on in the house. JMO