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ongoing live feed commentary & chatter thread #5 (spoilers allowed)
Nannfan:
--- Quote from: lilduke on September 16, 2007, 12:14:17 PM ---I think everyone is too hard on Danielle. Maybe because I am also 21 I understand her a little better. Yes, she whines, but most (not all) of it is just being a normal 21 year old. Granted, I am not a whiny person but I have a lot more responsibilities than she does. She is just young and bored. I'm sure if I was stuck in a house with no TV, internet, radio, or outside contact I would turn a little bratty too.
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I disagree with this, I have a 21 yr old and a 24 yr old NEITHER behave this way. I personally think Grama {Dicks} mom tried to make up for Danielles childhood yrs by over endulging her. YOU CAN TELL she is used to having it her own way PERIOD. She needs counseling big time.
I think Dick let his Mom do the raising but I don't think he was an absentee father, from the interviews with his Mom and Vincent he was involved.
People seem to be disposable in Dani's life, not 3 months ago she was talking about how much Kris meant to her blah blah, now everything is about Nick.
Considering money was the reason for the fall out in the first place it probably will be again. But to be totally honest SHE knows Daddy will give her money, so why not be happy!
Whoever it was on these boards that deemed her VERUCA hit the nail on the head!
Blondie:
:waves:
I am a parent of two girls, 25 and 30. I have watched them at their best and at their worst. I have had my share of :meow: with them in their lives. We all know that at Dani's, (young but immature), attacks on Dick, happens to every parent some time or another.
--- Quote ---I do have my moments when I whine, even now, especially to my parents because they are the ones who can take it.
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How true is this, parents take a whole lot from their children, but who is there when they fall, we are.
It is soooo hard when you feel there is nothing you can do to help them. It just knots up your belly when they think you are just the dumbest person on earth, but we will love them still no matter what.
--- Quote ---Daniele seems to be able to bring down any mood in the house, regardless of what is said. She will take the most innocuous comment and turn it inward. Dick on the other hand, goes overboard in hovering around her....almost smothering her, as if she is 10 years old and needs to be tended to. He missed that....too late! She's an adult (although she doesn't act it most of the time) and Dick needs to accept that.
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This is also true of young immature girls. They think the world is against them. It may look like Dick is smothering her to some, but I have been there, and all you want to do is make everything a little better for them. I am not saying that it is right, just that it is hard to watch your child, when you think they are hurting in some way, and not try to comfort them.
A parent does not see that their child is an adult that easily. In my eyes, when I see my girls, all grown up, I still see them as little girls and probably always will.
Dick is a harsh, outspoken, individual, but I really think he would do anything for his children, just like most of us would. I hope that if Dani does not go to family counseling with Dick, that at least Dick finds someone to talk to, to tell him he is not the only parent that feels that their children loathe them from time to time, and that there is not much you can do about it but let it go and go on loving them regardless. She will always be Daddy's Little Girl in his eyes.
sass:
--- Quote from: Blondie on September 16, 2007, 01:21:18 PM --- :waves:
I am a parent of two girls, 25 and 30. I have watched them at their best and at their worst. I have had my share of :meow: with them in their lives. We all know that at Dani's, (young but immature), attacks on Dick, happens to every parent some time or another.
--- Quote ---I do have my moments when I whine, even now, especially to my parents because they are the ones who can take it.
--- End quote ---
How true is this, parents take a whole lot from their children, but who is there when they fall, we are.
It is soooo hard when you feel there is nothing you can do to help them. It just knots up your belly when they think you are just the dumbest person on earth, but we will love them still no matter what.
--- Quote ---Daniele seems to be able to bring down any mood in the house, regardless of what is said. She will take the most innocuous comment and turn it inward. Dick on the other hand, goes overboard in hovering around her....almost smothering her, as if she is 10 years old and needs to be tended to. He missed that....too late! She's an adult (although she doesn't act it most of the time) and Dick needs to accept that.
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This is also true of young immature girls. They think the world is against them. It may look like Dick is smothering her to some, but I have been there, and all you want to do is make everything a little better for them. I am not saying that it is right, just that it is hard to watch your child, when you think they are hurting in some way, and not try to comfort them.
A parent does not see that their child is an adult that easily. In my eyes, when I see my girls, all grown up, I still see them as little girls and probably always will.
Dick is a harsh, outspoken, individual, but I really think he would do anything for his children, just like most of us would. I hope that if Dani does not go to family counseling with Dick, that at least Dick finds someone to talk to, to tell him he is not the only parent that feels that their children loathe them from time to time, and that there is not much you can do about it but let it go and go on loving them regardless. She will always be Daddy's Little Girl in his eyes.
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:tup: Very well put blondie and I think that you have put the two sides and perspective together on this one. I know that my parents will do anything for, that they want nothing but good things for me and they hate to see me feel bad, in pain or hurt by anything. They also hate it when I am sick and there is nothing that they can do to make me feel better. Like how Dani was acting yesterday before the questions with her cramps, I am the same exact way--I just lay in bed or on the couch in the fetal position watching tv to try and distract me and I am cranky because it hurts and there is nothing you can do to fix it. Dani was acting the same way exept for the fact that she is in the house there was nothing to really distract her from the way she was feeling.
Nannfan:
Well I agree with what Dick said on one of the feeds, she acts tough but is a broken lil girl. You all hit it right on she is immature and too immature to receive 500K, I think Dick will be way more responsible and will help her and Vincent in any way he can financially. Let's be honest she wouldn't help Dick financially and I doubt she would Vincent either.
sass:
--- Quote from: Nannfan on September 16, 2007, 01:33:17 PM ---Well I agree with what Dick said on one of the feeds, she acts tough but is a broken lil girl. You all hit it right on she is immature and too immature to receive 500K, I think Dick will be way more responsible and will help her and Vincent in any way he can financially. Let's be honest she wouldn't help Dick financially and I doubt she would Vincent either.
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That is ture nannfan and no matter how much I would like Dani to win, it probably would be better if Dick did win it because he would help Dani and Vincent out by offering to pay for college and stuff like that. But also we never really will know what will happen, unless BB shows us next year.
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