Dani telling Zach that Dick is driving her nuts because he is following her around and when she says something he gets all nuts. She says not to sound mean but she never considered him as family, just her grandmother, that he is like an annoying friend. she says that just because she is stuck in here with him for 3 months doesnt mean that things have changed.
Zach thinks that they haven't worked out communicating

-- family perspective that at least she has her dad and has plenty on time to amke things owrk if she wants them to -- its better when they are still alive.
Dani says that people dont know the stuff that shes been through that hes done stuff to her that she whould never do to her worst enemy -- hes more trouble than its worth to fix.