Spencer: the love is different which makes me think its different that its not just the excitement of love, but that we're working towards common goals. The giddiness and heart flutters aren't there, but there are a million other things that are so much better that take their places. I'm not saying I'm not in love with Marilyn, its just that, its a different feeling. Its just as strong its just diffferent.
Spencer asks Helen - He said that with Jessica his heart would flutter,
Helen: like love at first sight.
Spencer: I don't have those feelings but its more of a logical love, she's a great person, did you have that with Michael?
Helen: I've had both kinds, I know my friends have felt the same way. You marry that logical love and not that chemistry love. I think there are pople that marry that love at first site. I think when you're 25 there's just a lot of drama and people don't know how to deal with that kind of love. I think when you have that love at first site and you're older you can handle it. When you get older and look for a partner that's not th emost important quality that you have. That's not the best quality for a marriage. I always say if you took all of your assets and were going to start a business with this person would you? And if you hesitate then not? You have to manage your family budget, figure out how to parent your kids. When children come into play you need to come to gether on how you're going to approach things.